Ohhh Dick... what can I possibly say. This is gonna be a lot of mush, perhaps the few drinks I've had are gonna start a talking. But this is our medium to pass on those messages we perhaps don't send between the lines and such... and talking about how to enhance sexual experiences of the present.
Anyway... the last few weeks have been absolutely amazing and beyond all expression. I can't use the words to say what kind of heights you've taken me to sexually. Jeeze whiz. Hahaha... I've never been this constantly aroused and awaiting the next height. I know there's many more to find with you.
I just wanted to blog specifically on how I used to view sex and how I now view sex:
BEFORE
Just call me princess. I just wanted to lay there and be taken to these heights, but it never really ever happened. I didn't communicate, it was all "really good sex." The shortest dick with no talent at cunnilingis probably still thinks he's the greatest lover there ever was on earth, I just wanted "it" at the same time as dreading "it". It usually hurt, by the end of a weekend I was glad it was over. I didn't want to assert myself in bed in fear of many things... being assertive meant that I had to take over and I didn't want to take over.
NOW
I want to literally pounce over that wall of shame and get past all of those feelings of waiting for it. I want to take you to those same heights and watch you seizure on the bed. I want to leave you in an absolute coma. Not to hurt you... to pleasure you. And I want to do it FOREVER.
So I needs some encouragement to keep being agressive enough to intiate and take the lead... sometimes I'm too far gone to even think about it and I revert back to old habits... just slap me (nicely, and preferably on the tush) to get back to biz-nass.
Anyway just my two cents...
To many more puddles this weekend.
Monday, December 18, 2006
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
What can I say about Jane...
... That hasn't already been said of Mata Hari. Let's just say that Jane this weekend took me from 95% to 145%.... and took it all in stride. I feel like bragging to the world. Just walk around town with her by my side and go to strangers ... "See her? Best damn oral on the planet!" or "This woman can fuck with the best of e'm!"
But I can't do that, so I'll brag here.
Actually, things could not be better between Jane and I. We've got a good thing going and I'm really enjoying myself, and I know she is too.
Infact, we're getting over our initial shyness in bed... I think it's a big reason why posts here have trailed a bit. But we shall persevere.
Anyways, things are going awesome. Just wanted to brag.
But I can't do that, so I'll brag here.
Actually, things could not be better between Jane and I. We've got a good thing going and I'm really enjoying myself, and I know she is too.
Infact, we're getting over our initial shyness in bed... I think it's a big reason why posts here have trailed a bit. But we shall persevere.
Anyways, things are going awesome. Just wanted to brag.
Sunday, December 03, 2006
Sex survey
Do you like it rough/sensual?
- I like a bit of both, perhaps sensually rough...
Do you prefer the opposite sex or same?
- I'm painfully straight, sorry girls. Although we all fantasize now and again, I don't think I could actually do it in real life without feeling odd.
How often do you like to have sex?
- More than you care to know really. I could be a middle of the night, first thing in the morning, pre meal quickie, and bedtime girl if I had the opportunity.
Is sex a top priority for you?
- pretty much, pretty important to me I'd say.
Do you have sex face to face with your partner?
- much of the time we do make eye contact, although some sensual moments are had when we're both in our own little world.
How often do you get drunk and have wild crazy sex with a complete stranger?
- I can count it on one hand in my entire life, everyone who I have slept with has been some kind of an acquaintance for some period of time before. Much of my partnership has come from close friends or my "boyfriend" at the time.
How do you feel about one night stands?
- They aren't my cup of tea, I would rather be with someone for the long term than for an evening now and again. Call it emotional attachment, or the fact that I just can't get off with a one night stand.
How many one night stands have you had?
- I've never gone home with somebody from the bar, however that being said I've been with people once and never again... mainly because it just didn't work out or it really was THAT bad.
What's your favorite position?
- either me on top or me on bottom with the legs up.
Do you prefer to make love or fuck?
- making love is far superior
Have you ever watched porn while having sex?
- sure, but it seems to be over pretty quick.
How long do you foreplay before the deed?
- the longer the better
Do you get off first or do they?
- usually the man, more because of the ease I have in getting them there ;)
Do you like kissing during sex?
- of course, part of the romance
Do you moan? Are you loud or quiet?
- I'm a quiet girl by choice, or perhaps habit.. loud sex doesn't happen with a child around or with roommates.
Does size matter?
- Sure it does, although not always essential if a partner is skilled in other aspects.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
- I was 17 and in Grade 12, and of course it was a long term boyfriend...
How many sexual partners in the last month?
-I'd have to say I've been with one person faithfully for the last few years, I haven't fallen into the cheating or infidelity trap in a very long time. I have guilt issues that way, and I can't keep secrets like that... I'm pretty transparent. Not to say that people haven't requested or offered to break my promise of fidelity - it's easy to say no when you're able to keep with your values.
What's your favorite foreplay?
- mutual masterbation is always fun!
Do you ever play with yourself during the act?
- see above, and yes.
Have you ever done anal? Do you like it?
- Not intentionally, although there's been the odd "slip" and I wonder if the dood was attempting to try it.... I am not sure about my feelings, although it is a sensitive area to prod at now and again.
When and where was your wildest sex?
- in the back of a Chevy Nova... with vinyl seats on a backroad... with the cops knocking at the window at some point...
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
- water sex, or sex in public (that's incognito of course)
Have you ever done porn?
- No
Have you ever had sex for money?
- No
During sex, what are you thinking about?
- My parnter, sensual thoughts, loving thoughts, or just plain mind blowing crazy thoughts
How many positions during one episode?
- As many as happen, sometimes one position feels just as good as ten.
Do you ever worry about how you are pleasing your partner?
- All of the time, sometimes the act of cumming isn't always an indication of how much they liked it... but usually you can tell after if both of you are laid out and breathing very heavily, or I'm curled up ;)
How often do you find sex boring?
- Not very often, sometimes I find myself unsatisfied, or sad that it ended so soon. But I get over it.
How long does a typical episode last?
- From foreplay to sleep, lol, maybe around an hour and sometimes more.
Do you like to perform/receive oral sex?
- Sure
Have you ever had a 3-some?
- Once, with another guy watching, and it was creepy (more because the other guy was married to a girl I knew, and I didn't agree at first to the whole "threesome". I felt extremely uncomfortable and I don't think I would do it again. In that tense anyway.
Have you ever been caught in the act?
- Many times, my parents were pretty strict about having my door closed. For good reason I guess.
Have you ever had sex at school?
- No, but I made out in the parking lot once.
Have you ever had sex on drugs?
- Sure, it can be a nice trip.
What's your biggest turn on?
- Full out nudity, candles, wetness, moaning guy (I may be quiet, but I like a moaning partner), psychedelic sex, a good and large hard on
Do you spit or swallow?
- Swallowing can be weird sometimes, depends on the taste of the partner I guess.
How many times have you gotten off in one night?
- The maximum may be around six times
Do you ever have sex in the shower?
- I've attempted it a few times, it's usually too dangerous. A friend of mine broke his nose really bad once and since then I keep seeing his crooked face when I'm trying.
What's the weirdest place you've ever done it?
- Attempted the washing machine, but the basement it was in was far too cold and the angles/height weren't very good.
Are you still gonna have sex when you're 70?
- Damn straights.
What's your most embarassing moment?
- letting out pussy farts or real farts lol... I know it's a human bodily function but it's still embarassing.
Have you ever slept with someone out of pity?
- Maybe it was more the anticipation that it might be good eventually, but usually things don't work out in the end.
Do you remember who gave you the best sex of your life?
- My current partner far outweighs the competition, and it was unexpected!!! More because of the way we met than anything... but the circumstances no longer matter.
- I like a bit of both, perhaps sensually rough...
Do you prefer the opposite sex or same?
- I'm painfully straight, sorry girls. Although we all fantasize now and again, I don't think I could actually do it in real life without feeling odd.
How often do you like to have sex?
- More than you care to know really. I could be a middle of the night, first thing in the morning, pre meal quickie, and bedtime girl if I had the opportunity.
Is sex a top priority for you?
- pretty much, pretty important to me I'd say.
Do you have sex face to face with your partner?
- much of the time we do make eye contact, although some sensual moments are had when we're both in our own little world.
How often do you get drunk and have wild crazy sex with a complete stranger?
- I can count it on one hand in my entire life, everyone who I have slept with has been some kind of an acquaintance for some period of time before. Much of my partnership has come from close friends or my "boyfriend" at the time.
How do you feel about one night stands?
- They aren't my cup of tea, I would rather be with someone for the long term than for an evening now and again. Call it emotional attachment, or the fact that I just can't get off with a one night stand.
How many one night stands have you had?
- I've never gone home with somebody from the bar, however that being said I've been with people once and never again... mainly because it just didn't work out or it really was THAT bad.
What's your favorite position?
- either me on top or me on bottom with the legs up.
Do you prefer to make love or fuck?
- making love is far superior
Have you ever watched porn while having sex?
- sure, but it seems to be over pretty quick.
How long do you foreplay before the deed?
- the longer the better
Do you get off first or do they?
- usually the man, more because of the ease I have in getting them there ;)
Do you like kissing during sex?
- of course, part of the romance
Do you moan? Are you loud or quiet?
- I'm a quiet girl by choice, or perhaps habit.. loud sex doesn't happen with a child around or with roommates.
Does size matter?
- Sure it does, although not always essential if a partner is skilled in other aspects.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
- I was 17 and in Grade 12, and of course it was a long term boyfriend...
How many sexual partners in the last month?
-I'd have to say I've been with one person faithfully for the last few years, I haven't fallen into the cheating or infidelity trap in a very long time. I have guilt issues that way, and I can't keep secrets like that... I'm pretty transparent. Not to say that people haven't requested or offered to break my promise of fidelity - it's easy to say no when you're able to keep with your values.
What's your favorite foreplay?
- mutual masterbation is always fun!
Do you ever play with yourself during the act?
- see above, and yes.
Have you ever done anal? Do you like it?
- Not intentionally, although there's been the odd "slip" and I wonder if the dood was attempting to try it.... I am not sure about my feelings, although it is a sensitive area to prod at now and again.
When and where was your wildest sex?
- in the back of a Chevy Nova... with vinyl seats on a backroad... with the cops knocking at the window at some point...
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
- water sex, or sex in public (that's incognito of course)
Have you ever done porn?
- No
Have you ever had sex for money?
- No
During sex, what are you thinking about?
- My parnter, sensual thoughts, loving thoughts, or just plain mind blowing crazy thoughts
How many positions during one episode?
- As many as happen, sometimes one position feels just as good as ten.
Do you ever worry about how you are pleasing your partner?
- All of the time, sometimes the act of cumming isn't always an indication of how much they liked it... but usually you can tell after if both of you are laid out and breathing very heavily, or I'm curled up ;)
How often do you find sex boring?
- Not very often, sometimes I find myself unsatisfied, or sad that it ended so soon. But I get over it.
How long does a typical episode last?
- From foreplay to sleep, lol, maybe around an hour and sometimes more.
Do you like to perform/receive oral sex?
- Sure
Have you ever had a 3-some?
- Once, with another guy watching, and it was creepy (more because the other guy was married to a girl I knew, and I didn't agree at first to the whole "threesome". I felt extremely uncomfortable and I don't think I would do it again. In that tense anyway.
Have you ever been caught in the act?
- Many times, my parents were pretty strict about having my door closed. For good reason I guess.
Have you ever had sex at school?
- No, but I made out in the parking lot once.
Have you ever had sex on drugs?
- Sure, it can be a nice trip.
What's your biggest turn on?
- Full out nudity, candles, wetness, moaning guy (I may be quiet, but I like a moaning partner), psychedelic sex, a good and large hard on
Do you spit or swallow?
- Swallowing can be weird sometimes, depends on the taste of the partner I guess.
How many times have you gotten off in one night?
- The maximum may be around six times
Do you ever have sex in the shower?
- I've attempted it a few times, it's usually too dangerous. A friend of mine broke his nose really bad once and since then I keep seeing his crooked face when I'm trying.
What's the weirdest place you've ever done it?
- Attempted the washing machine, but the basement it was in was far too cold and the angles/height weren't very good.
Are you still gonna have sex when you're 70?
- Damn straights.
What's your most embarassing moment?
- letting out pussy farts or real farts lol... I know it's a human bodily function but it's still embarassing.
Have you ever slept with someone out of pity?
- Maybe it was more the anticipation that it might be good eventually, but usually things don't work out in the end.
Do you remember who gave you the best sex of your life?
- My current partner far outweighs the competition, and it was unexpected!!! More because of the way we met than anything... but the circumstances no longer matter.
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