Ahh! Christ It's been like a week since I've seen Jane. Add to that the promise of a new level of our sexual adventures when we meet again. Chances are pretty good I'll last about 14 seconds.
I must say there is excitement and trepidation about taking the no-condom approach. Excitement because, face it fellas, it feels better. Trepidation because face it it feels better. I'm seriously afraid I will last 14 seconds. I've been historically bad for holding off. Now I think I've done well with Jane, but hey that's with a rubber sheathe on the ol' dong. Bareback may very well blow my mind.
Only time will tell.
See you Friday night Jane!
Wednesday, November 22, 2006
Sunday, November 19, 2006
Exploring the things that make me tick
Bravo Dick, bravo. So I spent some time pondering what it really is that makes me tick, or crabwalk, or absolutely run away from Dick in bed - only because I'm in absolute intense pleasure.
1. He does this thing with his hands when he's fingering me with lube... it's an instant turn on, instant gush of fluid from me. Think of two fingered deep penetration with tons of lube... wow. But it has to be built up a bit... so starting with a massage and then a bit of kissing and touching.. then that. Puts me over the edge.
2. on my back, legs up, Dick on his knees... again it hits me in one of my spots. If I'm a bit dry it won't go... has to be a little bit of wetness.
3. Me on top always does it. Or something... if I can play and arch my back a bit I'm in freakin heaven.
Now I've been thinking about what would make me go even faster, and it really becomes a combination of other factors. The best lays are definately later in the date... and the first one is always a complete treat. Since we live a distance away, it's absolutely lucious to enjoy him off the bat.
I also think we need to undress slower... bits at a time, tiny kisses everywhere. Sometimes a change in pace too - maybe foreplay in a chair and then moving to the bed? Or some mutual touching for a while to get things moving... and touch after. I like to cum both ways - clitorally and orgasmicly... which is why you may find me playing sometimes after we've had mindblowing sex. My vag may be numb, but just above it is still tingling with absolute crazed do me vibes.
Now I can't really pin point why I spray out gallons of fluids one day and nothing the next... but I have come to know that it's not going to happen every time, and it still should not be the measure of great sex. Sometimes a bit of rough sex never hurt a girl.
Speaking on the lack of condom use... again I'd like to throw my own caution into the wind to our readership that "risky" behavior needs to be especially weighed before you make that decision. It's hard to know everything about your lover's past, and even though you may think you know someone after a few weeks or months you should realize what a risky behavior constitutes:
- IV drug use
- Past risky partners (ie. high sexual risk partners)
- Bleeding disorders
- HIV positive (duh... but people with HIV still have sex)
- Hep C positive
- tattoos, especially those done "at home" (many times done while in jail or with other high risk groups from the past)
- piercings, again done "at home"
HIV and Hep C have both occurred in small amounts of exchanges of blood and body fluids, but with sex using a condom with no rips/tears or breaks in the skin your risk is relatively low. It still does not exclude you from being at risk, but there needs to be a definate exchange in blood or body fluids. HIV does not live well outside of the body. That being said, most sexual encounters of any like are dealing with a lot of blood flow to both the vagina and penis and micro tears can occur. Please use caution when making this decision. Also, doctors are recommending that sexually active people should be HIV tested at least once a year. You can never be sure about your partner, as much as we love eachother Dick and I are going to get ourselves HIV tested at some point in this year just to make sure things are okay.
Sigh, glad the disclaimer is done.
Moving on, I also look forward to the skin on skin contact that shall be received soon. It's just that much better... that and latex gives me itchies for a few days afterwards. I am thinking its just an occupational hazard. But nonetheless... Dick you do outstanding work.
I have to say one of the best parts of all of this is the fact that Dick is into human flesh. Wink wink, nod nod.
1. He does this thing with his hands when he's fingering me with lube... it's an instant turn on, instant gush of fluid from me. Think of two fingered deep penetration with tons of lube... wow. But it has to be built up a bit... so starting with a massage and then a bit of kissing and touching.. then that. Puts me over the edge.
2. on my back, legs up, Dick on his knees... again it hits me in one of my spots. If I'm a bit dry it won't go... has to be a little bit of wetness.
3. Me on top always does it. Or something... if I can play and arch my back a bit I'm in freakin heaven.
Now I've been thinking about what would make me go even faster, and it really becomes a combination of other factors. The best lays are definately later in the date... and the first one is always a complete treat. Since we live a distance away, it's absolutely lucious to enjoy him off the bat.
I also think we need to undress slower... bits at a time, tiny kisses everywhere. Sometimes a change in pace too - maybe foreplay in a chair and then moving to the bed? Or some mutual touching for a while to get things moving... and touch after. I like to cum both ways - clitorally and orgasmicly... which is why you may find me playing sometimes after we've had mindblowing sex. My vag may be numb, but just above it is still tingling with absolute crazed do me vibes.
Now I can't really pin point why I spray out gallons of fluids one day and nothing the next... but I have come to know that it's not going to happen every time, and it still should not be the measure of great sex. Sometimes a bit of rough sex never hurt a girl.
Speaking on the lack of condom use... again I'd like to throw my own caution into the wind to our readership that "risky" behavior needs to be especially weighed before you make that decision. It's hard to know everything about your lover's past, and even though you may think you know someone after a few weeks or months you should realize what a risky behavior constitutes:
- IV drug use
- Past risky partners (ie. high sexual risk partners)
- Bleeding disorders
- HIV positive (duh... but people with HIV still have sex)
- Hep C positive
- tattoos, especially those done "at home" (many times done while in jail or with other high risk groups from the past)
- piercings, again done "at home"
HIV and Hep C have both occurred in small amounts of exchanges of blood and body fluids, but with sex using a condom with no rips/tears or breaks in the skin your risk is relatively low. It still does not exclude you from being at risk, but there needs to be a definate exchange in blood or body fluids. HIV does not live well outside of the body. That being said, most sexual encounters of any like are dealing with a lot of blood flow to both the vagina and penis and micro tears can occur. Please use caution when making this decision. Also, doctors are recommending that sexually active people should be HIV tested at least once a year. You can never be sure about your partner, as much as we love eachother Dick and I are going to get ourselves HIV tested at some point in this year just to make sure things are okay.
Sigh, glad the disclaimer is done.
Moving on, I also look forward to the skin on skin contact that shall be received soon. It's just that much better... that and latex gives me itchies for a few days afterwards. I am thinking its just an occupational hazard. But nonetheless... Dick you do outstanding work.
I have to say one of the best parts of all of this is the fact that Dick is into human flesh. Wink wink, nod nod.
A week in revu
Well where to begin. Well I'll try to summarize. The good news is, I have nothing negative to say, everything has been extremely cool this week!
Firstly, you'll all be happy to know, Jane can read (and how!). I'm quickly developing an oral fixation.
Second. Normally when I'm interrupted mid-coitus so my partner can sing along to the song on the radio, I'm quite annoyed. But usually that's because it's whatever new crap-fest called a song that Rascal Flats just put out. But when that song is Passive by APC, well I gotta stop and sing backups. You have an amazing voice Jane, despite what your mom might say.
Third - Lube. It's a good option. Explore it.
Fourth - Phase 3 ... as we're calling it. After going through our STI tests and discussing it, Jane and I have decided that this relationship is here for the long haul. So with the help of the Nuva-Ring contraceptive system we're setting the condoms aside and going with just birth control. Although not always a wise move, we put a LOT of thought and a LOT of care and discussion into this. So now I'm pretty stoked.
And finally, one for the readers out there if you're there. Jane and I have been discussing the fine art of anal lately. Now I'm not sure if it'll ever happen, but I definetly know that talking is not a bad thing. So input y'all ... have you tried it, hints, tips, yes, no, maybe... what's your thoughts.
Till next time!
(Love you Jane)
Firstly, you'll all be happy to know, Jane can read (and how!). I'm quickly developing an oral fixation.
Second. Normally when I'm interrupted mid-coitus so my partner can sing along to the song on the radio, I'm quite annoyed. But usually that's because it's whatever new crap-fest called a song that Rascal Flats just put out. But when that song is Passive by APC, well I gotta stop and sing backups. You have an amazing voice Jane, despite what your mom might say.
Third - Lube. It's a good option. Explore it.
Fourth - Phase 3 ... as we're calling it. After going through our STI tests and discussing it, Jane and I have decided that this relationship is here for the long haul. So with the help of the Nuva-Ring contraceptive system we're setting the condoms aside and going with just birth control. Although not always a wise move, we put a LOT of thought and a LOT of care and discussion into this. So now I'm pretty stoked.
And finally, one for the readers out there if you're there. Jane and I have been discussing the fine art of anal lately. Now I'm not sure if it'll ever happen, but I definetly know that talking is not a bad thing. So input y'all ... have you tried it, hints, tips, yes, no, maybe... what's your thoughts.
Till next time!
(Love you Jane)
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Oral Sex 101 - How to Give Dick Head - From his Perspective
I'd like to say that while writing this, I came to realize that maybe I've got too many ideas, and maybe I'm rushing. But I'm not demanding any of this, I'm just communicating my turn-ons and expect nothing. To quote Jane "If this ended tommorrow, I'd be content knowing I'd had the best sex of my life."
Firstly, this is in no way a criticism, to anyone. Oral sex for some people.. both men and women can be hard physically and mentally. There's unusual smells, fellatio comes with the threat of a gag reflex, and I always end up with a well gelled beard after performing cunnilingus. The positions for oral sex can be a bit hard on the kneck and well let's face it, you pee out of there, who wants to put their mouth in/on that? So I appreciate anything I can get.
The other day after a frankly mind bogglingly good blow-job I commented that it was as close as a woman had brought me to orgasm through oral sex. That was a half truth. My partners have gotten me to 75% then finished off by hand. Crude but effective. Jane got me to 95% and I'm writing this to help her get that other 5% should she desire that.
So without further opening bullshit as I tend to go on with, some pointers. (Tip, I certainly don't expect or think it's possible to incorporate all these points into one session, but include a few different ones each time and I think you'll notice the results.) Also, Jane I know you'll read this, you're already doing a few of these, and I know you're shy for a couple others, this is just a general article for the viewing public
- I am more than a cock. Most men will disagree, but it's true. Now I know personally I'm a bit (make that hella-lot) ticklish, so instead of softer petting I might respond better to firm rubbing or more aggressive mouth play in other parts of my body.
- I like to watch - I don't know if women are shy or what, but my view is usually blocked by a head or a blanket or darkness. Men are visual creatures, that's why we like porn. If you could add a visual element to a mind blowing blow-job... well I couldn't be held accountable for my actions.
- It bends at the bottom more than you think - Seriously. If my normal erection is zero degrees, I'd say it'll bend down to 140-160 degrees without pain, so don't be afraid. I'll let you know gently before you get to a point were you're hurting me.
- I do love the deepthroat - again, I know this is hard, I'm not even sure I could do as well as some. Ideally of course I'd love the old "nutz on ya chin" but what I've been getting the past few weeks has been just mind blowingly good!
- Oral beyond penetration - By this I mean, you don't have to swallow the o'l fella whole the whole time. Licking is alot of fun and sucking up and down the side is divine. Explore... teasing me is mean, but I think in the long run it's worth it.
- The question of pressure - They call it "sucking off" and "blow job" for a reason. PLay with sucking and blowing. I know a really good long suck is a major mind blower.
- My genitals are more than my penis - this is kinda related to the first one, and frankly I'm a bit reluctant to mention this one, but I'm curious and maybe in time something might come of this comment. The part I know about, having my testicles and scrotum gently sucked or rubbed is divine... please PLEASE don't forget the boys... they do all the work and they got a shitty union. There's also another male erogenous zone down there. I'm talking the ever taboo anal area. Now I've never experienced any contact there and I know I'd be a little nervous at first, but hell they say you can milk a man with prostate massage, so I'll admit I'm curious. I've also read (or saw on Sue Johanssen's Sunday Night Sex Show) that external prostate massage just above the anus is a treat so I'm willing to try... heck after the other day, I might just take that one into my own hands.
- It's called a Hummer - So hum, it sounds goofy, but it does send me to the stratosphere.
- Catch me off guard - I've got this fantasy. It goes something like this. I'm doing something... probably standing, but not necessary. Let's say cooking or hanging a picture. Jane walks in, says not a single word, shoves me against a wall, VERY quickly whips my pants and gotch down and before I even have a chance to know what happens she starts sucking me off. And I mean right fast.. I need to be flaccid when this one starts... I don't know why, but that idea turns me on. She then proceeds to enthusiastically suck me off until I've got no choice to finish right off. Spit or Swallow optional, swallow preferred. I got an erection just writing that. We can talk later.
- Let me finish - Hoo boy. Here's one where I can see your argument. Historically as soon as I get close and my partner can tell, the oral sex ends and we move to the handjob or traditional penetration. Semen is good protein, so if you can take it, please do. Please. ;) My argument is that I've swallowed my body weight in female fluids. But again, like anything else here, it's your comfort level as well as mine.
Well that's it for today. I read back and maybe this makes me sounds like a picky ass. And maybe I am. But I'm just trying to share what makes me tick and what would make my floodgate open. I totally respect my lovers comfort level and I hope in turn that she will respect mine, this blog is sort of my way of saying what I'm often to shy (or too sex-brain-dead) to say in bed.
See you in 22 hours Jane, I miss you and love you! Tune in Saturday for a review of the best blowjob of my life! Next week... my tips to the boys for giving her oral sex!
Firstly, this is in no way a criticism, to anyone. Oral sex for some people.. both men and women can be hard physically and mentally. There's unusual smells, fellatio comes with the threat of a gag reflex, and I always end up with a well gelled beard after performing cunnilingus. The positions for oral sex can be a bit hard on the kneck and well let's face it, you pee out of there, who wants to put their mouth in/on that? So I appreciate anything I can get.
The other day after a frankly mind bogglingly good blow-job I commented that it was as close as a woman had brought me to orgasm through oral sex. That was a half truth. My partners have gotten me to 75% then finished off by hand. Crude but effective. Jane got me to 95% and I'm writing this to help her get that other 5% should she desire that.
So without further opening bullshit as I tend to go on with, some pointers. (Tip, I certainly don't expect or think it's possible to incorporate all these points into one session, but include a few different ones each time and I think you'll notice the results.) Also, Jane I know you'll read this, you're already doing a few of these, and I know you're shy for a couple others, this is just a general article for the viewing public
- I am more than a cock. Most men will disagree, but it's true. Now I know personally I'm a bit (make that hella-lot) ticklish, so instead of softer petting I might respond better to firm rubbing or more aggressive mouth play in other parts of my body.
- I like to watch - I don't know if women are shy or what, but my view is usually blocked by a head or a blanket or darkness. Men are visual creatures, that's why we like porn. If you could add a visual element to a mind blowing blow-job... well I couldn't be held accountable for my actions.
- It bends at the bottom more than you think - Seriously. If my normal erection is zero degrees, I'd say it'll bend down to 140-160 degrees without pain, so don't be afraid. I'll let you know gently before you get to a point were you're hurting me.
- I do love the deepthroat - again, I know this is hard, I'm not even sure I could do as well as some. Ideally of course I'd love the old "nutz on ya chin" but what I've been getting the past few weeks has been just mind blowingly good!
- Get up, Stand Up! - Bob Marley was not talking about political upheaval, he wanted some new positions! Just as there are a myriad of intercourse positions, there are a myriad of oral sex positions. 69, and lying down (and "backwards") head are a few of the obvious. How about wall blowjobs (him standing, her kneeling), the classic "deepthroat" (supposedly invented for the movie "Deepthroat", the woman lies on her back on the bed with her head hanging upside down off the bed, he stands and enters.. supposedly the easiest deepthroat method), Facesitting a little harder for men receiving, but again, it bends! chair head (him sitting, her kneeling. Again, there are a myriad, and frankly the internet is a beautiful tool. For the more advanced couple, how about chair 69?
- Oral beyond penetration - By this I mean, you don't have to swallow the o'l fella whole the whole time. Licking is alot of fun and sucking up and down the side is divine. Explore... teasing me is mean, but I think in the long run it's worth it.
- The question of pressure - They call it "sucking off" and "blow job" for a reason. PLay with sucking and blowing. I know a really good long suck is a major mind blower.
- My genitals are more than my penis - this is kinda related to the first one, and frankly I'm a bit reluctant to mention this one, but I'm curious and maybe in time something might come of this comment. The part I know about, having my testicles and scrotum gently sucked or rubbed is divine... please PLEASE don't forget the boys... they do all the work and they got a shitty union. There's also another male erogenous zone down there. I'm talking the ever taboo anal area. Now I've never experienced any contact there and I know I'd be a little nervous at first, but hell they say you can milk a man with prostate massage, so I'll admit I'm curious. I've also read (or saw on Sue Johanssen's Sunday Night Sex Show) that external prostate massage just above the anus is a treat so I'm willing to try... heck after the other day, I might just take that one into my own hands.
- It's called a Hummer - So hum, it sounds goofy, but it does send me to the stratosphere.
- Catch me off guard - I've got this fantasy. It goes something like this. I'm doing something... probably standing, but not necessary. Let's say cooking or hanging a picture. Jane walks in, says not a single word, shoves me against a wall, VERY quickly whips my pants and gotch down and before I even have a chance to know what happens she starts sucking me off. And I mean right fast.. I need to be flaccid when this one starts... I don't know why, but that idea turns me on. She then proceeds to enthusiastically suck me off until I've got no choice to finish right off. Spit or Swallow optional, swallow preferred. I got an erection just writing that. We can talk later.
- Let me finish - Hoo boy. Here's one where I can see your argument. Historically as soon as I get close and my partner can tell, the oral sex ends and we move to the handjob or traditional penetration. Semen is good protein, so if you can take it, please do. Please. ;) My argument is that I've swallowed my body weight in female fluids. But again, like anything else here, it's your comfort level as well as mine.
Well that's it for today. I read back and maybe this makes me sounds like a picky ass. And maybe I am. But I'm just trying to share what makes me tick and what would make my floodgate open. I totally respect my lovers comfort level and I hope in turn that she will respect mine, this blog is sort of my way of saying what I'm often to shy (or too sex-brain-dead) to say in bed.
See you in 22 hours Jane, I miss you and love you! Tune in Saturday for a review of the best blowjob of my life! Next week... my tips to the boys for giving her oral sex!
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
I would have posted earlier -
But I think I had a minor stroke during sexual congress yesterday. I always said I wanted to go during sex, now I'm sure of it.
I suppose some details of this blog and our relationship should be explained before I go too much further. Jane and I are in somewhat of a long-distance relationship. It's about a 1hr commute to see each other... not unheard of in say New York or Toronto, but we're in such a place where an hour means about 100km of travel. So we only get to see each other in person once or twice a week. As you can imagine, we're completely randy when the time comes.
We started this blog (or at least I did) for a few reasons. One, to make the most of the time we do have together. It's easier for me and Jane to pop by here and see "Oh Dick wants me to suck his balls" or "Oh Jane wants it on the counter" then act on it next time we see each other.. it saves time, plus we can both be a bit shy when we're doing the deed, it seems to be easier to share that with the whole of cyberspace. Second, to encourage experimentation. By having an audience who wants to know what crazy sexual position we do next (sooner or later she'll be propped up the side of the bed, legs in the air, head on the floor and I'll be trying to figure out the best way to enter) we're more inclined to try stuff. And finally to share our ideas and have your ideas shared by us, so please if you swing by, comment. Don't worry, you can remain anonymous, we just want to hear what you have to say.
NOW THE GOOD STUFF!
So Jane came over yesterday afternoon after I was done work. She had other engagements that night, so we had only a few short hours together. So we cuddled a bit, put on a Bob Marley DVD, smoked a joint (I HIGHLY recommend trying the new clear papers they have out there, easy to roll and cool to boot) and well then I got a little ridiculous. I'm not sure if it was the endo, the matching red and gold flower print bra and panties or just the fact that Jane is one HOT momma, but she looked sexy as hell. So we engaged in the fine art of cunnilingus for a while. I then encouraged her to take the wheel. I think Jane was a little stoned (to say the least) at this point, and something happened that was an incredible turn on, but quite unexpected... I certainly didn't expect it. She began to give me a handjob... no suprise there, but then I realized... she's getting herself off too. She claims she was just feeling her freshly shaved pussy, but I know better.
She soon followed with an AMAZING blow job. Her magnificent head of hair was blocking my view, so I'm not totally sure what she was doing, but I know it was making me see stars.
We then proceeded to enjoy the fine art of couch sex ("Dick, you'd better put on a condom, we're past the point of no return"). Now I thought I'd had couch sex before, but I was frankly quite wrong.
We started with the basic her sitting on my lap on top. I really enjoyed this because Jane is shorter than me and it allowed some great face to face kissing and contact that is normally quite hard with horizontal positions.
I then repositioned her to be facing away from me. It's been my experience that many women aren't fond of positions where they aren't facing you, I suppose I can't blame them, but damn, you got a nice ass, I want to have a peek. So I made a game of turning her around ("can we do it without me falling out?"), then I lied her right back so she was laying on my chest. I wasn't able to penetrate as deep in this position, but I was able to kiss her, play more and generally enjoy more than her lower half. I encouraged her to continue her self-pleasuring (it seemed like it might be fun) and I proceeded to have a brain hemorrhage.
All in all it was an AMAZING afternoon that has left me with a permanent erection and a uncontrollable need for the weekend to come now (42 hours left!).
Tune in tommorrow... "Giving Dick a Blowjob 101 - His Advice"... Maybe Jane will follow with "Going Down on Jane 101" or "Giving Dick a Blowjob 101 - Her Advice". Should be fun for all!
I miss you Jane, and I still got jelly legs (I had trouble getting up this morning, but I was quite dehydrated).
I suppose some details of this blog and our relationship should be explained before I go too much further. Jane and I are in somewhat of a long-distance relationship. It's about a 1hr commute to see each other... not unheard of in say New York or Toronto, but we're in such a place where an hour means about 100km of travel. So we only get to see each other in person once or twice a week. As you can imagine, we're completely randy when the time comes.
We started this blog (or at least I did) for a few reasons. One, to make the most of the time we do have together. It's easier for me and Jane to pop by here and see "Oh Dick wants me to suck his balls" or "Oh Jane wants it on the counter" then act on it next time we see each other.. it saves time, plus we can both be a bit shy when we're doing the deed, it seems to be easier to share that with the whole of cyberspace. Second, to encourage experimentation. By having an audience who wants to know what crazy sexual position we do next (sooner or later she'll be propped up the side of the bed, legs in the air, head on the floor and I'll be trying to figure out the best way to enter) we're more inclined to try stuff. And finally to share our ideas and have your ideas shared by us, so please if you swing by, comment. Don't worry, you can remain anonymous, we just want to hear what you have to say.
NOW THE GOOD STUFF!
So Jane came over yesterday afternoon after I was done work. She had other engagements that night, so we had only a few short hours together. So we cuddled a bit, put on a Bob Marley DVD, smoked a joint (I HIGHLY recommend trying the new clear papers they have out there, easy to roll and cool to boot) and well then I got a little ridiculous. I'm not sure if it was the endo, the matching red and gold flower print bra and panties or just the fact that Jane is one HOT momma, but she looked sexy as hell. So we engaged in the fine art of cunnilingus for a while. I then encouraged her to take the wheel. I think Jane was a little stoned (to say the least) at this point, and something happened that was an incredible turn on, but quite unexpected... I certainly didn't expect it. She began to give me a handjob... no suprise there, but then I realized... she's getting herself off too. She claims she was just feeling her freshly shaved pussy, but I know better.
She soon followed with an AMAZING blow job. Her magnificent head of hair was blocking my view, so I'm not totally sure what she was doing, but I know it was making me see stars.
We then proceeded to enjoy the fine art of couch sex ("Dick, you'd better put on a condom, we're past the point of no return"). Now I thought I'd had couch sex before, but I was frankly quite wrong.
We started with the basic her sitting on my lap on top. I really enjoyed this because Jane is shorter than me and it allowed some great face to face kissing and contact that is normally quite hard with horizontal positions.
I then repositioned her to be facing away from me. It's been my experience that many women aren't fond of positions where they aren't facing you, I suppose I can't blame them, but damn, you got a nice ass, I want to have a peek. So I made a game of turning her around ("can we do it without me falling out?"), then I lied her right back so she was laying on my chest. I wasn't able to penetrate as deep in this position, but I was able to kiss her, play more and generally enjoy more than her lower half. I encouraged her to continue her self-pleasuring (it seemed like it might be fun) and I proceeded to have a brain hemorrhage.
All in all it was an AMAZING afternoon that has left me with a permanent erection and a uncontrollable need for the weekend to come now (42 hours left!).
Tune in tommorrow... "Giving Dick a Blowjob 101 - His Advice"... Maybe Jane will follow with "Going Down on Jane 101" or "Giving Dick a Blowjob 101 - Her Advice". Should be fun for all!
I miss you Jane, and I still got jelly legs (I had trouble getting up this morning, but I was quite dehydrated).
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Full of all kinds of bliss
Dick, I must say, you rocked my world today.
The couch sex is a definate turn on, especially with the room being somewhat limited, and the positions being so sinky into the couch... it really allows for the lap lovin to work. Sitting on your lap was delectable... especially backwards. It totally allowed for you to play, me to play, and takes advantage of curves...
Countertop must be our next adventure.
The connection factor is incredible right now. Something to be proud of... and of course being a hippy and smoking a big fat one first was completely admireable. Perfect idea, perfect day... and you look HOT in my choice of clothes hahaha.
Miss you dick...
The couch sex is a definate turn on, especially with the room being somewhat limited, and the positions being so sinky into the couch... it really allows for the lap lovin to work. Sitting on your lap was delectable... especially backwards. It totally allowed for you to play, me to play, and takes advantage of curves...
Countertop must be our next adventure.
The connection factor is incredible right now. Something to be proud of... and of course being a hippy and smoking a big fat one first was completely admireable. Perfect idea, perfect day... and you look HOT in my choice of clothes hahaha.
Miss you dick...
Friday, November 03, 2006
Experiences on Sexual Health
Part of a good sexual relationship is trust. But despite all the trust in the world, no one can be totally sure of what is going on in their body, particularly if they have some sexual history. Jane and I started this relationship much less than virgins and we recognized that we may have exposed ourselves to STI's in the course of our lifetimes. We had a mature talk last week about our histories, our risk and our plans. We decided to go get checked and give ourselves some peace of mind and freedom of sexual expression.
Both of us had been recently screened for HIV (I from blood donation and her I believe at a pap test) so we were less concerned about that as we were concerned with the other big ones.
We swung in to our local Planned Parenthood (there are also STD health clinics and more, look in the phone book) and took a quick pee (which I had to do anyways) and went on our way. Didn't cost a thing (thank you Canada) and took less than half an hour. And in a week, we'll both be able to rest assured that we're healthy or we'll be in a position to easily treat any problems that may come up.
Simple, and refreshing!
Both of us had been recently screened for HIV (I from blood donation and her I believe at a pap test) so we were less concerned about that as we were concerned with the other big ones.
We swung in to our local Planned Parenthood (there are also STD health clinics and more, look in the phone book) and took a quick pee (which I had to do anyways) and went on our way. Didn't cost a thing (thank you Canada) and took less than half an hour. And in a week, we'll both be able to rest assured that we're healthy or we'll be in a position to easily treat any problems that may come up.
Simple, and refreshing!
Thursday, November 02, 2006
And hello from Dick, and I'm madly in love with Jane. We started this blog as a communication tool for each other and other lovers. Sometimes we see stuff on the internet or in books, but there's no practical review of the position or product or whatever. We're going to explore the bedroom (and beyond) in reality and this blog. Hope you all enjoy, and please make sure you put in your 2 cents.
Favourite thing this weekend. Passionate female orgasm, there's nothing like bringing your partner to the point where she can't even cough for fear that she'll orgasm again.
Favourite thing this weekend. Passionate female orgasm, there's nothing like bringing your partner to the point where she can't even cough for fear that she'll orgasm again.
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