Exploring the things that make me tick

Bravo Dick, bravo. So I spent some time pondering what it really is that makes me tick, or crabwalk, or absolutely run away from Dick in bed - only because I'm in absolute intense pleasure.

1. He does this thing with his hands when he's fingering me with lube... it's an instant turn on, instant gush of fluid from me. Think of two fingered deep penetration with tons of lube... wow. But it has to be built up a bit... so starting with a massage and then a bit of kissing and touching.. then that. Puts me over the edge.

2. on my back, legs up, Dick on his knees... again it hits me in one of my spots. If I'm a bit dry it won't go... has to be a little bit of wetness.

3. Me on top always does it. Or something... if I can play and arch my back a bit I'm in freakin heaven.

Now I've been thinking about what would make me go even faster, and it really becomes a combination of other factors. The best lays are definately later in the date... and the first one is always a complete treat. Since we live a distance away, it's absolutely lucious to enjoy him off the bat.

I also think we need to undress slower... bits at a time, tiny kisses everywhere. Sometimes a change in pace too - maybe foreplay in a chair and then moving to the bed? Or some mutual touching for a while to get things moving... and touch after. I like to cum both ways - clitorally and orgasmicly... which is why you may find me playing sometimes after we've had mindblowing sex. My vag may be numb, but just above it is still tingling with absolute crazed do me vibes.

Now I can't really pin point why I spray out gallons of fluids one day and nothing the next... but I have come to know that it's not going to happen every time, and it still should not be the measure of great sex. Sometimes a bit of rough sex never hurt a girl.

Speaking on the lack of condom use... again I'd like to throw my own caution into the wind to our readership that "risky" behavior needs to be especially weighed before you make that decision. It's hard to know everything about your lover's past, and even though you may think you know someone after a few weeks or months you should realize what a risky behavior constitutes:

- IV drug use
- Past risky partners (ie. high sexual risk partners)
- Bleeding disorders
- HIV positive (duh... but people with HIV still have sex)
- Hep C positive
- tattoos, especially those done "at home" (many times done while in jail or with other high risk groups from the past)
- piercings, again done "at home"

HIV and Hep C have both occurred in small amounts of exchanges of blood and body fluids, but with sex using a condom with no rips/tears or breaks in the skin your risk is relatively low. It still does not exclude you from being at risk, but there needs to be a definate exchange in blood or body fluids. HIV does not live well outside of the body. That being said, most sexual encounters of any like are dealing with a lot of blood flow to both the vagina and penis and micro tears can occur. Please use caution when making this decision. Also, doctors are recommending that sexually active people should be HIV tested at least once a year. You can never be sure about your partner, as much as we love eachother Dick and I are going to get ourselves HIV tested at some point in this year just to make sure things are okay.

Sigh, glad the disclaimer is done.

Moving on, I also look forward to the skin on skin contact that shall be received soon. It's just that much better... that and latex gives me itchies for a few days afterwards. I am thinking its just an occupational hazard. But nonetheless... Dick you do outstanding work.

I have to say one of the best parts of all of this is the fact that Dick is into human flesh. Wink wink, nod nod.